To Give Love

It's no secret that the values placed on friendships, relationships, and love has changed drastically. The thoughts and perceptions on those three sectors are not what they used to be.

I won't compare our generation to others or to traditional values, but I will say this...communication and spending time with others is the bridge connecting people and building friendships and relationships and unfortunately, we don't communicate with each other.

We have moved from quality time and the esscense of enjoying the company of others to valuing the concept of being in the moment. While in the moment we enjoy the time, and we capture it on social media and we leave it right there, in our memories as just moments.

Instead of enjoying moments, psychologically what we should do is 1. Put down our phones 2. Talk and interact with each other 3. Move, if you enjoyed that person and that time, move forward. People are not your entertainment buddys for the time being, lol, seriously. So when we say things like "People don't know how to be friends anymore" or "Dating is trash", you all are absolutely right, because we are no longer interacting with each other in the ways that would teach us these skills and give us the tools to do and be better. Our natural interactions, are what is actually trash, so to fix that, is the key to having better friendships and overall better relationships.

We all deserve to seek, find, establish, and give love.

I will not be doing a break down of this post because it is pretty direct and the points are listed, so with that being said, what are your thoughts on the concept of communication? Are we currently struggling and can use some help or do you think we're doing just fine? Comment below and let us know.

Xox,

The Versatile It Girl